Love readings are a big help in understanding relationships, feelings and personal connections. When I want clarity about love or relationships I use specific tarot spreads. Each spread gives me unique insights to help me uncover emotions, resolve conflicts and understand love. Below are the best tarot spreads for love readings.
The Lovers Spread is one of the most popular tarot spreads for relationships. It uses 6 cards, each one revealing a part of the relationship:
Card 1: My thoughts about the relationship
Card 2: My partner’s thoughts
Card 3: My feelings
Card 4: My partner’s feelings
Card 5: Obstacles
Card 6: Future of the relationship
This spread helps me see both my side and my partner’s. It’s good when I’m unsure where we’re at.
The 3-card spread is fast and easy. Good when I want a quick look at my relationship. The cards are:
Card 1: My part in the relationship
Card 2: My partner’s part
Card 3: The relationship
This spread is about how both partners contribute to the relationship and where we need to improve.
This 5-card spread is for self-reflection. When I feel out of love I use this spread to get back in touch with my emotions. The cards are:
Card 1: How I feel about love right now
Card 2: What’s blocking me from feeling love
Card 3: How to get rid of these blocks
Card 4: What I need to let love in
Card 5: How to keep my heart open
It gives me insight on healing emotional wounds and loving with an open heart.
I love myself before I build healthy relationships. This spread has 4 cards that focus on self-awareness and self-care:
Card 1: How I see myself
Card 2: What I need to work on my self-love
Card 3: What’s preventing me from loving myself fully
Card 4: How I can boost my self-worth
This spread is good for personal growth and confidence.
The five-card cross spread looks at the past, present, and future of a relationship. It helps me understand how my relationship has evolved over time. The positions are:
Card 1: The past influences on the relationship
Card 2: My role in the present
Card 3: My partner’s role in the present
Card 4: The current state of the relationship
Card 5: The future of the relationship
This spread is great when I want to evaluate whether a relationship is progressing in a healthy direction.
When searching for a soulmate, this spread provides deep insights into my desires and challenges. The seven cards show:
Card 1: What I am looking for in a partner
Card 2: What I can offer in a relationship
Card 3: Obstacles preventing me from finding love
Card 4: How to overcome these obstacles
Card 5: Where to find my soulmate
Card 6: How to attract my soulmate
Card 7: When I might meet my soulmate
This spread helps me align my intentions with actions to attract meaningful connections.
Effective communication is the foundation of any healthy relationship. This five-card spread highlights how my partner and I interact:
Card 1: My communication style
Card 2: My partner’s communication style
Card 3: How we solve problems together
Card 4: Our shared goals and values
Card 5: Advice to strengthen our connection
This spread identifies areas where communication can improve and encourages better understanding between partners.
Compatibility is more than just physical attraction. This four-card spread focuses on emotional, mental, physical, and spiritual connections:
Card 1: Emotional connection
Card 2: Mental connection
Card 3: Physical connection
Card 4: Spiritual connection
By examining these areas, I can see whether a relationship has the balance needed for long-term success.
When arguments or misunderstandings arise, this six-card spread helps identify the root of the problem and solutions:
Card 1: The main issue
Card 2: My role in the conflict
Card 3: My partner’s role
Card 4: The best way to resolve the issue
Card 5: What I can learn from the situation
Card 6: How to avoid similar conflicts in the future
It provides clarity and fosters healthy resolution in relationships.
This spread is perfect for gaining insight into what love has in store for me. The five cards represent:
Card 1: My current love situation
Card 2: What I truly want in love
Card 3: Changes I need to make
Card 4: Who might enter my life
Card 5: The potential outcome of my love life
It helps me align my goals with the opportunities that lie ahead.
When a past relationship leaves emotional scars, this five-card spread is incredibly helpful for finding closure:
Card 1: What pain I still carry from the past
Card 2: Lessons I learned from the relationship
Card 3: How to release emotional baggage
Card 4: How to reconnect with myself
Card 5: Steps to move forward
This spread is vital for healing and preparing for a healthier relationship in the future.
For serious, long-term partnerships, this seven-card spread provides insight into shared goals and challenges:
Card 1: Our mutual dreams and aspirations
Card 2: Obstacles that may arise
Card 3: How we support each other
Card 4: Potential challenges ahead
Card 5: How to overcome challenges
Card 6: How to maintain balance in the relationship
Card 7: The future of our commitment
This spread is essential for couples who want to ensure their relationship remains strong over time.
These tarot spreads offer powerful tools to uncover hidden emotions, resolve conflicts, and nurture love. Whether you are single or in a relationship, the insights from these spreads can guide you toward meaningful connections and personal growth.